I don't love giving oral sex, but she says it's the key to her pleasure. Any tips?

Girl Next Door answers

Be more creative. Lapping away for 30 minutes might eventually bring her to climax, but she's looking for an artist, not a laborer. Trust me -- the more she enjoys it, the more you will. Plus, the fact that she's better lubricated and has heightened sensitivity will make postorgasm sex more intense. So experiment with tongue strokes (soft and wide, rather than firm and pointy), target zones (feather her clitoris, but don't ignore other hot spots), and speeds (faster is not always better). Encourage her to guide you. If you tweak your technique and your heart still isn't in it -- despite her body-bucking explosions -- you two might be sexually incompatible. They're rare, but some women can't stand oral sex. Maybe you'd be better off with one of them.