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Before you sleep with her -- or even sooner, if it's an issue fundamental to your beliefs. If she is pro-choice, frame it as a personal issue rather than a political one. Remember, "pro-choice" doesn't necessarily mean "pro-abortion." It won't be an easy conversation, but avoiding absolutes like "wrong" or "oppose" will help. Instead, say that if you were ever to conceive a child together, you'd prefer that she give birth so the two of you could either raise the baby together or choose an adoptive family. This way you come across as thoughtful and responsible, rather than dogmatic and close-minded.
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